bookmark or share

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Tips on How to Pick Up Women

I am going reveal some tips on How to Pick up Women when you are at a bar or a club. You see a woman you'd like to know better. What do you do? Well, try being bold, open and happy for starters. Women like guys who show a smile and even more than this, women like a guy who can laugh at himself and who can crack good jokes
"Your mindset and playful attitude is the key"

First time when I stepped into dating game I used to think that being successful with women I had to master technique. I memorized pick up lines and acted so "cool". Those 3 steps I was aware of helped me a little but suddenly i picked up on more women when I had no agenda. I mean when I went out with my friends to have fun, I have actually picked up more women. For a long long time I was figuring this one out why?

Experience is golden. After months of picking up, approaching and dating women experience has taught me that the most important thing is your playful mindset. What exactly do I mean by "playful mindset" anyway? Lets take a look at it in this way. Having the right attitude is the key. Women love men who are funny, smiling and know how to crack a good joke. Remember a rule number one when you pick up women: "It is not how much you like her, but its how much she likes you!"

This is happening very often. A man will approach a woman,start conversation and she doesn't respond the way he expected her to. And then he walks away and a load of negative thoughts boiling in his head. This will keep him from making another approach.

This is not a good place to be in. So what I am trying to say is do not let those negative experiences put you down, walk straight and became master of your thoughts. If you can not get over these irrational emotional feelings, it will be very difficult to master the game of picking up women.

As I mentioned before the key to mastering the game is to have the right playful mindset. If you're really shy guy, by the way I used to be shy as well, then start off by going out no less than 3 times during your first week and meeting women's eyes longer than you normally would. When your second week comes say "hello" or "hi" to one woman a day that you do not know. Your third week you shall double or triple that number. By your fourth week you should start making at least one approach per day. And so on until you get used to it on daily basic.

Its possible that thought of approaching a woman you do not know scares you, then do not worry and try this. Don't take it personally simply just have fun. Imagine that you are playing your favorite computer game. I know what you are thinking now but I'm not kidding, this really works. Look at it in this way, going out and talking to women isn't reality. Think about it, she doesn't know who you are and you do not know who she is. You are only approaching her.She is going to respond to you based on how she feels at that moment, how you look like, and what you say and how you say it. So it's not reality. It's only a very small echo of it. So when you go out to meet new women, don't take anything personally. It's all about having fun, learning, and trying to make women laugh.

There is a secret to becoming successful as pick up women artist and its to act like you deserve to be one. Show a pride in yourself, your surroundings and your achievements and any woman will be impressed and proud to be seen on your arms.

IS THE INFORMATION USEFUL?
PLEASE CLICK COMMENT BELOW.

No comments:

TAGS

love quizzes reasons for divorce jealousy relationship stages romance relationship relationships healthy romance dating tip relationship quizzes rebound relationship romantic tips online advice personal advice flirting love dating advice