How should I dress up for my date? How safe is it to go on a blind date? Am I supposed pay the bill? Is it okay to have sex on the first date? Read on for some useful dating advice...
Well, not everyone might be as good as Britney Spears when it comes to choosing the right guy…Dating is one of the best options for people to go out, spend time with each other and explore the possibility of a blossoming romance. However not every date can be a cakewalk and hence here is some dating advice that you could use while you continue your hunt for Mr. Right or Ms. Right…
Choose the Right Venue
While asking out someone for a date think of a venue that you are sure you will be comfortable with. In case you are expecting a little awkwardness and jitters on the first date think of fun venues that might help you break the ice. For example you can go bowling, fishing, or just catch a movie together. In case you already know the person and feel confident enough, go for a candlelight dinner, a walk on the beach, star gazing and so on. Always think of places that will be interesting and fun for both of you.
Do Not have Pre-conceived Ideas About Your Date
Do not have any predetermined ideas about the person you are about to date. If you have a common acquaintance who doesn’t think highly about your date, do not let this affect your point of view. Try and meet the person and see for yourself how the person is. Always go out on a date with a open mind, without expecting any specifics and there is a chance you’ll return with a smile on your face.
Be Comfortable, Be Yourself
It is often said that when you are on a date you should put your best foot forward to create the perfect first impression. Although that might actually help you while dating, the thing that will actually take a long way is being yourself! Do not pretend to be someone that you are not and allow the person to know you and like you for who you are. Dating is about exploring the possibility of compatibility and romance, so comfort is the first thing that you should look for. Do not over-dress and try getting into uncomfortable clothes to impress your date.
Don't Rush - Take Things Slow
Never rush into a relationship while on a date. Let things progress step by step. For example sleeping on the first date might not be a really great idea even if you are in the moment and feel you are getting carried away. Go out for three to four times or as many dates as you require to make sure you like the person. Once you are sure you like the person you can take the relationship to the next level.
Keep the Conversation Going
A good conversation always helps you know a person better. Think of random subjects to talk about but make sure the subject interests your date. Cracking a few jokes might be good idea to break the ice, but make sure your joke and the timing is appropriate. You don’t want to face the embarrassment of cracking a bad joke and getting the ‘That’s not even close to funny’ look from your date. There will be awkward silences and abrupt pauses, but make sure to keep the conversation going. Do not get embarrassed and confused if both of you suddenly seem to be out of topics to chat about. Try and ask your date open-ended questions to take the conversation ahead.
Do Not Lie - Be Honest About Yourself
Dating is about looking out for a perfect companion, and obviously you don’t want to start a relationship with lies. Never lie on a date – be it your work, your salary, your house location, your family background, or any other thing that might come up in a conversation. Be honest to your date. In case you are uncomfortable answering a particular question, say so but do not lie about it.
Do Not Believe in Clichés
This one is especially for the ladies. In an age where we fight about equality of men and women expecting him to get the bill is just plain stupid. The best way is to ‘go dutch’ (each one of you pays for what you have had) or else just split the bill equally. Especially when it is your first date, carry enough money or your credit card to be able to pay for yourself.
Practice Safe Dating
Do not use unreliable sources for dating. Blind dates set up via an unreliable dating bureau or a date planned with your online-friend might turn out to be a great one but be very sure about the reliability of a person in case of blind dates or internet-dates. People you met on the social networking website or in a chat room might not always turn out to be good, there are lots of dangerous people who are on the lookout for victims on the internet. Do not have any suspicious drinks or too much alcohol during the date so that you can remain alert and be in your senses throughout the date.
By Uttara Manohar
Published: 2/29/2008
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